Many things change when you become a Mother. Life seems to take a whole new direction. A dear friend told me once that my life would change completely. Before being a Mom I thought well some things will change, and I envisioned my self carrying a beautiful baby, changing diapers, feeding the baby etc.. but the other things didn't really come to my mind like all the emotions I would feel a few months later. A victory over postpartum depression, less sleep, less time for going out with friends, and more.
Motherhood is more than just going to baby depot so the baby looks so cute. More than the joy of knowing that your marriage was fruitful and multiplied. Now you have this being that will need you from day one. As Mothers we are essential helpmates to our family. We can be encouraging or discouraging. We can teach, influence, guide, nurture, nourish, & so much more. These little people grow up fast. They absorb and watch how we handle life.
There is many things I have learned from my Parents. Great things, and some things I have asked God to remove from my heart and mind. Kids watch both Mom and Dad. Most of the time Mom is the one being more of an influence just because of the time spent seems to be greater. Your job is very important. If you are a stay at home Mom with little young ones you might feel forgotten sometimes. You might feel like a maid, taxi, patrol, therapist, cheerleader, counselor, attempt at chef, all rolled in to one, plus add Wife which is another priority. Don't forget that you are not alone. You are important in this world, the cookies you bake make a difference. That boo boo you kissed has suddenly felt better. That book you read creates tiny smiles and big memories. Take a deep breath and tell the Lord to show you the beautiful task you have been given.
Whether you work or stay at home your influence is the same. You have a generation before you, a generation that can make a difference, one that chooses good, one that cares, and respects. One that loves. Aside from homework, hobbies, and sports, you are raising a generation that prays, knows the life changing word, and is a light in this world. Tell me what an awesome job you have! So a Mother's day isn't just a regular day, every day in a Mother's life is important for her children. Little or big kids, teenage, or adults, a Mom is one of a kind!!! Happy Mothers day!
